I had an interesting conversation with my husband Mark recently. I asked him “What is something you think women should know about men that they generally don’t understand?” This led to a long discussion about the differences between the wiring of a man’s brain and a woman’s brain. His answer was rather surprising and interesting. If I can summarize correctly, Mark said that most men look at a problem or task and quickly process the most efficient and best way to tackle it, while women can often take a while to deliberate and talk about all the different possible solutions. He went on to say that a man’s brain is wired to think of logical ways to address problems with as little extra work as possible.
This made me realize that a small way we can bless our husbands is to ask them for their input when we have a task or problem to solve, and then to heed their advice! This means we will have to tell our pride to take a hike!
I think most women, if you’re like me, would take offense if my husband told me the “right way” to do something. However, I’m thinking that maybe, just maybe, I would be wise to listen to my husband’s advice. Two Bible verses come to mind.
Proverbs 12:15 Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others.
1 Peter 5:5-6 “Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble'”
Additionally, what a blessing it would be to my husband if I stuffed my pride and asked for his input and advice regarding a task or problem. He would likely feel greatly respected by me. Your husband would too.
The Appreciated Wife 