I tend to constantly pick at a dysfunctional relationship in my life. It drives me a little crazy that I am estranged from some relatives. I keep on feeling like I need to “fix it”. This has been going on for years! And I think Satan has my number on this. Just when I think I’ve sorted through my responsibility in the situation and come to the conclusion that I’ve done everything I should, Satan whispers into my ear once again “this is your fault”…”you aren’t handling this correctly as a Christian”…blah, blah, blah. And the cycle repeats itself every few months…for years!
I was feeling this way again last night, and I rehashed that fractured relationship once again with my husband. Bless his heart! I’m so thankful that he can actually be patient with me as I talk through that situation over and over again every few months. Anyway, he quickly reminded me that I have done everything I can. He helped me to see the situation objectively. Where I was consumed with emotions and doubt, he could see more clearly. As Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!”
Sometimes, you and I really do need our husbands counsel. Often, they are less emotional than we are. Many times, they can see the situation much more objectively and correctly assess how it should be handled. Plus, our husbands love it when we come to them for advice, because it signifies that we actually respect their opinion. Is it time to seek your husband’s counsel on a situation in your life? Two are often better than one!