Words you should never say to your husband!

Our husbands battle the world every day at their jobs.  Co-workers stab them in the back.  Other men put them down in order to look more important.  The culture tells your man he is a failure if he doesn’t own a Mercedes and he can’t dunk like LeBron James.

So when your man comes home to you, the last thing he needs is to feel like a failure in your eyes too.  However, our words often unintentionally communicate just that!  Perhaps this is why God felt it necessary to actually instruct wives in Ephesians 5:33 that “the wife must respect her husband”. 

 Even if your husband has disappointed you, you can still be respectful as you address his behavior, request changes, and establish boundaries.  However, if you condemn him and belittle him in that moment of disappointment, you shred his heart.  As a result, he will likely turn his heart away from you, self-medicate his pain in destructive ways, or simply stop trying to be a good man since you don’t see anything good in him anyway!

With the need to respect your husband in mind, here are some words you should never say to your man:

You always….(insert complaint)

You never… (insert complaint)

Why don’t you ever…?

I don’t respect you

I feel like your mother

If people only knew what you are really like

You don’t make enough money

How many times do I have to tell you…?

That’s not the right way to do it

I don’t need you

I’ll never be able to trust you

You’re a jerk

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