Remaining beautiful and attractive to your husband

Here are three things I’ve learned about becoming a beautiful wife in the eyes of my husband (and it’s HIS opinion that really counts!).

1)  I need to put effort into looking my best for my husband, just like I did when I was dating him!  There are many healthy decisions I must choose to make on a daily basis so that I can look my best.  For instance, build into your schedule a 30 minute walking or bike-riding time perhaps 4 days a week.  Even if you have young children, there is a way to make this work. Put the kids in a stroller or have them ride their bike with you.

2) I need to shed insecurity and choose to have a confident attitude about my appearance and value.  My husband says a woman’s confidence is VERY attractive to men.  Flirt with your husband.  Give him some playful, sexy, sass!  He will find that quite attractive!

3) I really need to embrace 1 Peter 3:4 which tells wives their beauty comes from a “gentle and quiet spirit”.  When I asked my husband what this verse means, he said it means that a wife is FOR her husband and not fighting him every step of the way.  It means she creates a peaceful home where her husband is treated with respect.

We all want to be beautiful wives.  So, let’s ask God to grow us in self-control, confidence, peacefulness, and respect for our men.

— or view this topic as a 2 minute VIDEO ENCOURAGEMENT

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